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Who is Ann Eliza Harllee

Eliza was the oldest daughter (of Peter and Ann M. (Fulmore) Harllee); she was a lady of remarkable intelligence; died in 1895. (Sellers).

The Confederate War began in her young womanhood. She was bereft of her father just before its beginning and of her mother in the midst of the war, with all her brothers in the army at the front or at home only during their convalescence from wounds. On her fell the responsibility of care of her younger sisters, and the management of their Negroes and plantation.

She met these responsibilities most capably. Throughout her life she had the devotion of her kindred, her neighbors and also the blacks to whom she was kind, considerate and generous.

She was a woman of superior refinement and culture with tastes and talent for music, literature, and of the fine arts; yet she was equal to the serous burdens which the misfortunes of war and its aftermath brought to her. Her company was sought by her kindred and others of superior refinement, yet her sympathetic nature extended to those in more humble condition of life.

There was a charm in her conversation and in her letters. She maintained an extensive correspondence with her relatives and friends. Her powers of description were vivid and exquisite. She charmed alike all classes of people from the aged and elegant to the little Negro children who loved to be about her.
        
This delicate and refined woman did not lack courage in emergencies. Once, shortly after the Confederate War, when some Federal soldiers came to her home early one morning to search for her brothers and disturbed her by knocking on her window, she dashed scalding water upon them. The on in charge who escaped this baptism subdued the wrath of the others. She remained defiant and compelled his respect.
        
This writer resided in the home of his unmarried aunts and uncle and knows the noble part they played in the momentous struggles of their epochal times. He was the recipient of their unselfish devotion and care, and treasures the memories and inspirations he received from them.

LETTER TO MRS. ESTHER (COLEMAN) PROCTOR (S10ace)

        (From copy furnished by Major J. T. Coleman (S10ac121). The writer and recipient of this letter were great granddaughters of David Stuart (S1). The William mentioned herein was W. J. Proctor husband of the recipient, Jesse was his brother, Celia his sister, Nathan his half-brother, and Malinda his half-sister. (See S10a for letters from W.J. Proctor stating these relationships). William J. and Esther(Coleman) Proctor resided at Holly Springs, Dallas Co., Ark. Thomas' Store where this letter was addressed was probably near there).

My Dear Cousin:                                                                Little Rock, SC, Apr., 1860
       

I at length seat myself to answer your very kind letter. I was very glad to hear from you. I expect you begin to think that I have forgotten you entirely. But if that be the case you are laboring under a mistake. I very often think of you and almost imagine that I see you in your old places. You must excuse me for delaying so long. I have four or five un-answered letters now from my cousins in the West.

You have no doubt heard of the death of my dear Father. He died on the 8th March. He was sick about six weeks before he died. He had great many carbuncles on him, he suffered a great deal before he died. The carbuncles were very extensive and also very painful. He was perfectly resigned to death, spoke often about death during his sickness, always expressed a willingness to go whenever it was the Lord's will that he should.

My dear Cousin will you pray for me and may we all meet my dear Father in Heaven at last. May your Father live long and spare you the heart rendering affliction of his loss. We have the consolation that our great loss is his eternal gain for which I am thankful to Him that ordereth all things. He knows what is best for us all. May we all be ready to go at His calling is my constant prayer.

Tell Cousins William and Malinda that I went to see their Father, they are all well. Celia was complaining of her teeth. They look quite snug in that little house. I hardly think they will leave here very soon.

Mary Ann Stackhouse (6604c) is looking very well at present. Harriet McLaurin (6604b) is living in Richmond. I heard from her last week. She is very well. I saw old Aunt Kitty Bethea (66 6660221a m 6604) last Sunday. She is well as can be expected. Tell Malinda we miss her very much. Oh, she doesn't begin to know how much.
        
Mother and Amelia (104b) join me in love to you. William, and Malinda. I must close.
Yours,
ANN ELIZA HARLLEE

P.S. When you see Mr. Nathan Proctor give him my very best respects. If you see Jesse ask him if he has forgotten his old school days at Liberty Chapel (the predecessor of Methodist Ch., Little Rock, SC). Give him my best respects also I will close again. Do write soon as you receive this. I will be more punctual next time.
        I remain, Your affectionate cousin ANN ELIZA HARLLEE.

[The numbers in ( ) refer to the series of family genealogy books KINFOLKS.]

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